Like Fresh Ideas?

December 6th, 2008

It’s great to have lots of reviews on Amazon or Christianbook.com.

If you’ve read Fresh Ideas or Fresh Ideas for Women’s Ministry, would you take a minute to rate it or write a review on one of the sites below?  Thanks!

Amazon - Simply click on one of the books below, scroll down to the bottom where it says “rate this item” or “Customer Review - write your own review” and write to your heart’s content.

         Fresh Ideas - 1000 Ways to Grow a Thriving and Energetic Church

         Fresh Ideas for Women’s Ministry

Christian Book . Com - Same procedure - click on a book, then click

        Fresh Ideas - 1000 Ways to Grow a Thriving and Energetic Church

        Fresh Ideas for Women’s Ministry

You could also write a review on the LifeWay website. Just click on “reviews” and write one.

       Fresh Ideas - 1000 Ways to Grow a Thriving and Energetic Church 

      Fresh Ideas for Women’s Ministry

Thank you. And keep on shining!

Christmas Banquet Party Game

December 6th, 2008

Church Christmas Party Games

 

My friend, Sandy, asked me to help her think of a conversational game to play around the banquet tables for a staff Christmas party. I thought you might enjoy using these questions at your party.

NOTE: See other posts on this site for more Christmas party games!

 

TABLE DISCUSSION GAME:

Give each table these eight questions to discuss while they eat. They are to select the very best answer from their group to enter into a contest for prizes.

After dinner, each question is read and each table offers their best answer. The table with the best answer is declared the winner, with a winner for each question. A simple “prize” is given to all at that table. (For example, they could get a Christmas candy or other tiny prize. For the food question, the prize could be a bag of pork rinds for the table to share.)

1. What’s the WORST Christmas gift you ever received?

2. Who has the most unusual Christmas meal or food tradition? (i.e. we eat tamales)

3. How old were you when you found out there was no Santa? (Who at your table was the oldest)

4. How many decorated Christmas trees are in your house right now?

5. Who at your table will travel the most miles this Christmas?

6. How many at your table have ever played “Santa” (worn a suit).

The table with the most Santa’s wins.

7. How many at your table have never had a white Christmas. (table with most wins)

The table with the most wins.

 

8. Which person at your table can do the best version of Santa’s “ho ho ho!”

The winner from each table with compete with other table winners for the prize.

If you’d like, you could ask a question to discover who has the best family tradition that truly celebrates Jesus at Christmas.

Enjoy His birthday!

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For lots more Christmas ideas, see:

Still Giving Thanks for ThanksGiving

December 4th, 2008

Thanksgiving ramblings…

This may have been my favorite Thanksgiving ever!  My extended family all meet at my brother’s home in Fort Worth for Thanksgiving, and this year there were 24 of us.  Our three young adult children, our future son-in-law,  nieces and nephews and two new nephew-in-laws, and my siblings and Mom and Bruce…we have more and more reasons each year to give thanks to God.

After a couple of days with all those people together, my sister and I were marveling at what a miracle it is that we all enjoy one another so much.  God has truly blessed, and I thank Him.

The weekend before Thanksgiving, Steve and I led a deacon and deacon wives retreat at Cumberland State Park in Kentucky. It was such fun!

From there, we drove to Fort Worth for Steve to do some interviews at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary before we headed over to the family celebration.

We drove from there to Birmingham AL for a WMU meeting for state executive directors. If you’ve never seen the WMU building, you should make a trip there sometime. Quite impressive!  (I even saw Annie Armstrong’s bed. Did you know she was 6′ tall?).

Then Tuesday evening, we drove to Nashville for LifeWay meetings. I go to spend time with some B&H staff, and that is always a great encouragement. We’ll finish with a nice dinner tonight, then head for home.  Sure hope there’s some snow left in Indy!

Before the Thanksgiving meal and prayer, our family all stands in a big circle, and each person tells one thing they’re thankful for this year. Those thanks range from tearful to hilarious, and we always can’t wait to hear the little kids’ responses. It just takes a couple of minutes, but that list of thanksgivings set the pace for another year of giving thanks to our God.

I’m so thankful for all the opportunities God has provided for Steve and me for serve Him. I’m thankful for the family He’s given us and for health and friends and the safe travel He’s given over this long trip and…let’s keep on thanking!!

A Great Idea for Missions for Ura Church

November 16th, 2008

Did you know that there are 6,456 known unreached people groups in our world? These are entire people groups who have no Christian witness.

Did you know that our International Mission Board of the Southern Baptist Convention will help your church “adopt” a people group and play a key role in helping bring that group to Christ? (See “adopt a people group” at www.imb.org). 

Well, I’ve just finished another seminary assignment, and it was on this topic. We were assigned to pick one of those thousands of ”people groups” and write a research paper about a plan to reach them. I selected a tribe called the Ura in Nigeria. Of course, I’m no expert on them. I’ve never even been to the continent of Africa. But I think you’ll find it really interesting.

 I’m attaching the paper below for you to ponder.  Just ignore all the footnotes, etc. You may just find a great idea that will fit your church! (If you’re in Indiana, you can call Steve Blanchard at the State Convention Office to help get you started–317-481-2400). Here’s the paper:

UNREACHED PEOPLE GROUP PROJECT:

THE URA OF NIGERIA

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Christmas Sunday School class idea

November 16th, 2008

Of course, you leaders must plan ahead, so allow me to share an idea for a Christmas project next month.

This is one of the Christmas ideas in my book, Fresh Ideas–1000 Ways to Grow a Thriving & Energetic Church:

A Nativity-a-Day

“For a ministry project, purchase a twelve-piece nativity scene and do this version of the Twelve Days of Christmas for a homebound member or person who will be alone for the first time this Christmas.  Deliver one piece of the nativity scene daily for twelve days, ending with the baby Jesus on Christmas day.  If this is a church or class project, a different member could deliver each day.  A friend of mine did this with “secret” deliveries, leaving daily notes and gift-wrapped nativity pieces on the front porch, by mail or other delivery methods.  At a scheduled time, she and her family delivered the baby on Christmas day.”

I received a note today from a lady who read the book, saying that she was purchasing a nativity scene and planning to do this with an elderly neighbor this Christmas.  Her husband’s Bible class was doing this as a mission project, with a different class member making a delivery each day. (I’m not sure if it’s a person in a nursing home, someone with an extended sickness, or a homebound member.) Each gentleman in the class is assigned a specific day, and makes a visit to deliver one nativity scene piece.  You don’t actually have to do exactly twelve–it could be more or less.  The gift is your reflection of God’s love as you show his care to one who needs it this season. 

My friend who did this with her young children made it an annual tradition. Each year, they would ask the pastor for an idea of a person who needed Christian encouragement, and they carefully made their plan. Each day was an adventure for the children as they planned how to deliver their surprise. As Christmas neared, they sent word through their pastor or a common friend to specify a time on Christmas Day they would like to stop by for the last delivery.  The recipient each year became a dear Christian friend of that family, and they began planning for next year’s Nativity-A-Day. 

Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays are such a wonderful time to shine for Jesus…

Keep on shining!

 

 

Women’s Ministry One-Minute Devotionals

November 13th, 2008

I spotted a new book that you women’s ministry leaders might enjoy. 

It’s called Devotions Galore–Warm-Ups, Wrap-ups and Prayer for Women’s Groups

If you read my book, Fresh Ideas for Women’s Ministry, you will remember that I’d recommended that you plan a brief fellowship coffee during your women’s ministry. This fellowship time might come between a Bible study or missions class and a ministry project, and it just lasts fifteen minutes. The purpose of these minutes is threefold:

1) Fellowship - informal, relaxed friendship-development, mentoring, laughing, chatting in a large-group setting

2) Snacks - it’s the “meet and eat” thing, but it can be healthy snacks!

3) A very brief devotional. Bring hearts together with a prayer, testimony or Scripture.

The majority of minutes during the coffee break are devoted to fellowship. Announcements and prayer requests are printed or written on a whiteboard. The fellowship time concludes with a one-minute devotional from God’s Word.  (That takes lots more effort to plan well than a fifteen-minute devotional!)

I just skimmed through this new book and thought you’d find several great ideas for simple, short, memorable devotions for your women’s ministry group. 

Keep on shining!

 

Gift Exchange Game for your Sunday School Christmas Party

November 11th, 2008

Steve and I led a deacons and wives retreat last weekend for two southern Indiana churches, and it was such fun.  One lady shared this gift exchange game, and I thought you might enjoy using it over the Christmas holidays. (I know! I know! It’s still not Thanksgiving yet. But if I file it away, you may never see it.) We’d used it years ago, and I’d lost the script. It’s easy, quick and fun for any age.

 

NOTE:  See other posts on this site for great ideas for your church Christmas party, too.

 

Keep on shining!

 

PASS-AROUND GIFT EXCHANGE

 

If you have a gift-exchange at your Sunday School class party, here’s a fun way to distribute the gifts.

 

The group sits in a circle, and each holds a gift. As the poem is being read (with deliberate emphasis on the words “right” and “left), each person passes his gift to the person on his right or left when the words “right” or “left” are read. At the end of the story, everyone opens the gift they are holding.

‘TWAS THE NIGHT RIGHT BEFORE CHRISTMAS

 

‘Twas the night RIGHT before Christmas when RIGHT through the house
Not a creature was LEFT stirring, not even a mouse–
The stockings were hung RIGHT by the chimney with care,
in hopes that St. Nicholas soon would be RIGHT there.
The children were nestled RIGHT snug in their beds,
while visions of sugarplums danced RIGHT in their heads,
And mama in her kerchief, and I in my cap,
had just settled RIGHT down for a long winter’s nap,
When RIGHT out on the LEFT lawn there rose such a clatter,
I sprang RIGHT from my bed to see what was the matter.
Away to the RIGHT window I LEFT like a flash;
tore open the shutters and threw up the sash.
The moon on the breast of the new-fallen snow
LEFT a luster of midday to objects RIGHT below.
When, what to my wondering eyes should appear,
but a miniature sleight and eight tiny reindeer.
With a little old driver RIGHT lively and quick;
I knew RIGHT in a moment it must be St. Nick.
More rapid than eagles his coursers they came;
and he whistled and shouted, and called them RIGHT by name:
“Now, Dasher! Now, Dancer! Now, Prancer and Vixen!
On Comet, on Cupid, on Donder and Blitzen!
To the RIGHT top of the porch! To the LEFT top of the wall!
Now dash away, dash away, dash RIGHT away all!”
As dry leaves that before the wild hurricane fly
when they meet RIGHT with an obstacle, mount RIGHT up to the sky,
So up to the housetop the coursers they LEFT flew,
with a sleighful of toys and St. Nicholas, too.
And then in a twinkling, I heard RIGHT on the roof,
the prancing and pawing of each little RIGHT and LEFT hoof.
As I drew in my head and was turning LEFT around
down the chimney St. Nicholas came with a bound.
He was dressed all in fur, RIGHT from his head to his LEFT foot,
and his clothes were all LEFT tarnished with ashes and soot.
A bundle of toys he had flung RIGHT on his back,
and he looked like a peddler just opening his pack.
His RIGHT and LEFT eyes, how they twinkled! His dimples
were RIGHTmerry!
His cheeks were like roses, his nose like a cherry!
His droll little mouth was LEFT drawn up like a bow,
and the beard LEFT on his chin was as white as the snow.
The stump of a pipe he held RIGHT in his teeth,
and the smoke it encircled his head like a wreath.
He had a broad face and a round little belly,
that shook when he laughed, like a bowl full of jelly.
He was RIGHT chubby and plump, a RIGHT, RIGHT jolly old elf,
and I laughed when I saw him in spite of myself.
A wink of his LEFT eye and a LEFT twist of his head,
soon gave me to know I had nothing to dread.
He spoke not a word, but went RIGHT straight to his work,
and filled all the stockings; then turned LEFT with a jerk
And laying his finger to the LEFT of his nose,
and giving a nod, he LEFT
up the chimney he rose.
He sprang RIGHT to his sleigh, to his team gave a whistle,
and away they all LEFT like the down of a thistle.
But I heard him exclaim, ‘ere he LEFT–out of sight,
“Happy Christmas to all
and to all a good night!” 

 

Book Notes: I finally submitted the proposal for a next book–one for pastor wives. I’ll pick up working on that manuscript after Christmas, so if you have any great ideas or topics you’d like to suggest for it, let me know (click “add comment” below or email me.)  This is going to be a really great one!! I really enjoy encouraging pastors’ wives, and since I’ve spent most of my life in that role, it will be really fun to share tips and encouragements for that very important group of leaders. I’ll keep you up as this project progresses.

 

Personal notes:  I’m buried in books for five more weeks as I complete classes for my seminary degree.  One class is a masters level Old Testament class.  I’m constantly amazed to discover how much I don’t know, but I’ve really enjoyed learning about the archeological finds and verifying manuscripts found over the years that keep on confirming biblical history.  Pray for my poor brain!

Update on Deacon Wives book

November 7th, 2008

My newest book, Deacon Wives, is officially online! Even though it won’t be released until next June, the book went online on Amazon.com and LifeWay.com for presale today.  Take a look and let me know what you think.

I’m very excited about this book.  Deacon wives can make such an enormous impact on their church’s ministry, its harmony and its joy. Pray with me that God will use Deacon Wives to challenge and encourage these great leaders.

Update of Recently published articles:

The Deacon Magazine - Winter issue

Utah-Idaho Southern Baptist Witness - October issue

South Carolina’s The Courier - October issue

The Indiana Baptist - October issue

The Illinois Baptist - October issue

Let’s Worship magazine - Winter issue

Thanksgiving Celebration ideas

November 5th, 2008

I’m shaking my calendar and wondering if it’s really true that November is here! 

Are you looking for some fresh ideas for celebrating Thanksgiving at your church? I just noticed that the LifeWay website has an excerpt from my Fresh Ideas book, and thought you might enjoy these Thanksgiving ideas–from a pie squad party to a “seeking thanksgiving” mystery trip. It’s pasted below.

Yes, it’s November. And I’m thankful.
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FRESH IDEAS FOR YOUR CHURCH THANKSGIVING CELEBRATIONS

Written by Diana Davis

It all began with some comments about turkey. Our church’s annual turkey dinner had grown stale. As one young couple stated, “There’s a limit to how many turkey dinners one can eat in a week!”  It was time to begin a new Thanksgiving tradition.

 

On Sunday evening before Thanksgiving, our church family gathered in the fellowship hall for a very special Lord’s Supper celebration and a simple meal. Everyone was seated at round tables with candle centerpieces. One deacon or church staff member sat at each table, and a scrumptious meal of homemade stew and cornbread was served.  At their table, each person informally shared about blessings from God during the previous year.   

After dinner, lights were dimmed and the pastor led a meaningful candlelight Lord’s Supper, and we celebrated God’s greatest blessing. He directed the deacons or staff members to administer the elements to those at their table. This simple, solemn ceremony became an anticipated, well-attended tradition. And it was turkey-free. 

Looking for more fresh ideas for Thanksgiving?

A “Pie Squad Party”is a Thanksgiving celebration/ministry event. Partygoers load into cars to joyfully deliver gorgeous homemade pies to every church member who is homebound or living in a nursing home. Each member of the group signs a greeting card to leave with the pie, and after spending a few minutes to encourage and pray for the homebound friends, team members gather back at the church to enjoy the town’s biggest homemade cobbler.

“A Wall of Thanks” is a visual expression of thanks. At the beginning of November, use white paper to cover a focal wall in the church foyer. Invite church members of all ages to use markers or paints to artfully express thanks to God all month long.

“Seeking Thanksgiving” is a mystery van trip where vehicles packed with church members follow a map to several prearranged locations to discover and celebrate God’s blessings. Recruit church members with large vehicles to drive, and ask them to enhance its exterior with Thanksgiving decor and a “Seeking Thanksgiving” sign.

Carefully select Christians in your church who have been uniquely blessed or protected by God this year, and ask them to host a mystery stop, where carloads of church members will make a brief visit to celebrate God’s blessings. Your pastor may have ideas of very thankful members. Some examples:

  • a couple with a new baby
  • a homebound senior adult rocking on her porch
  • a brand new Christian at his home
  • a college student in her dorm
  • a hospitalized member who can receive guests
  • a recent immigrant

Each thankful person awaits the visitors, holding a large picket-type sign that reads “I’m thankful!”  Groups take a photo with them, encourage and pray with them, then return to the church for refreshments and fellowship.

After all, there’s more than just turkey to a great Thanksgiving season.


 

More “Fresh Ideas” for your ministry are available in these practical books by Diana Davis:

Also, check out Diana’s official website at www.keeponshining.com

Diana DavisDiana Davis lives in Indianapolis, where her husband Steve serves as the Executive Director for the State Convention of Baptists in Indiana. A popular women’s conference speaker, Diana has ministered to women’s groups internationally. She especially loves  encouraging pastors’ wives and deacons’ wives.Fresh Ideas

The 52 Challenge — Will you take it?

November 4th, 2008

Here’s this month’s article from the Indiana Baptist. This would be a great New Year project for a church!

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Fresh Ideas

 

The 52 Challenge

 

By Diana Davis

 

“…Compel them to come in so that My house will be filled.” Luke 14:23b

 

Amazingly, nine out of ten unchurched people say they would come to church if they were asked.* Will you be the asker? I double-dare you to take the “52 Challenge”:

 

Step#1: Think of one person you know who doesn’t attend church. Only one. Invite that person to your church this Sunday and arrange to meet at the front door. Write their name on Sunday’s date in your personal calendar.  

 

Step #2: Commit to God that you will repeat that process weekly for one year.  Don’t know 52 lost people? Don’t fret.  Just ask God’s direction and watch for one person to invite this week.  Suddenly, you’ll notice masses of lost people around you. Need ideas?

 

  • As you walk the dog and observe a neighbor outside, remember the 52 Challenge.
  • Ask that friend you’ve been intending to invite.
  • Invite the Wal-Mart greeter. How about your hairstylist, doctor, tax advisor or landlord?
  • In the post office or grocery line, or riding the bus, converse with someone who needs an invitation.
  • Make a list of relatives, acquaintances or neighbors, and systematically invite them.
  • During coffee break at work or chatting with the butcher or working out at the gym, think “52.”
  • Who could you invite at the PTA meeting, reunion, company picnic or ball game? 
  • Ask your new neighbor, car salesman, insurance agent or sister-in-law. Invite your mail carrier, restaurant waiter, fireman, repairman, or mayor.  

 

During the next 52 weeks, write the name of the person you invite to church on every Sunday’s box of your calendar.  52 weeks. 52 people. One week at a time.

The 52 Challenge is for individuals, but a church can encourage personal invitations by providing “invitation business cards” with church address, worship times and website.  Attendance more than doubles at Plymouth Baptist’s annual Friend Day. How? Each member simply invites one friend.

What would happen if every Christian in Illiniois committed to ask just one person to church every week this year? They’re waiting for an invitation, and eternity is at stake.  Will you take the 52 Challenge? 

 

(*Statistic from Thom Rainer’s book, The Unchurched Next Door, Zondervan).  

 

©Diana Davis is author of Fresh Ideas and Fresh Ideas for Women’s Ministry (B&H)

and wife of Indiana Baptist Convention’s executive director. www.keeponshining.com